A wise woman named Scarlett once said that she needed "a t shirt that says "THIS IS NOT A DATE" to wear on ambiguous hangouts with men, since I seem to foolishly wind up on dates that I think aren't dates?"
We all need know what it feels like to end up on ambiguous "hangouts" or a "chill sesh" with men. They do it on purpose. Let's not let our words mince our intentions, or our nervousness concede to their hopes. Be honest without having to say anything at all.